I enjoyed your article (How to party if you’re shy, socially awkward – or just plain boring, 17 December). I am an introvert, but I have learned how to do small talk. The key is to get the other person to talk about themselves by asking the right questions. However, a missing element in the piece was the issue for anyone with any degree of hearing loss. In crowded, noisy spaces such as parties, pubs and restaurants, it is impossible to follow general conversation. One-to-one small talk becomes impossible and frustrates the other person. Much easier to refuse invitations. So I mostly stay away from parties and enjoy my books.
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